Why women cry during s*x: When you imagine having s*x that you’re totally into, crying probably isn’t part of the picture.
But sometimes when you’re in the middle
of doing the deed, your emotions take over and you suddenly find tears
leaking out of your eyes. You might feel surprised depending on the
situation, but being overcome with feelings during the act is actually
pretty normal, even when you actively want to have s*x. Here, 7 women
show as much by sharing the reasons they’ve cried during s*x.
Some are heartbreaking while others are
incredibly sweet, but all of them prove that there’s absolutely nothing
wrong with getting emotional during that. Sometimes, you’ve just got to
let it out.
1. Because of confusing an*l s*x-induced feelings.
“I was having anal thing with my
boyfriend of two years. We were slightly tipsy after a few glasses of
wine, and it was only the second or third time we’d tried it.
A few minutes in, I burst into tears,
and not from pain. I started crying because I wasn’t sure if I felt
degraded or not, and if I did feel degraded, then I was actually
enjoying it.
It was a strange feeling, and I was
shocked by my own tears. My boyfriend immediately wrapped me in his arms
and asked if I was OK. I said yes and started laughing, so he joined
in. Needless to say, the mood was somewhat ruined, but I can confirm
there have been no tears since.” —Thea C., 21
2. Because her partner cheated.
“One morning, a woman slid into my
Instagram DMs and told me she and my ‘boyfriend’—I use that term
loosely—had been sleeping together and dating each other for a couple
months.
I didn’t sleep with him for over a month after I found out, and the first time I did, I began to cry shortly after we began.
I was thinking about him with the other
woman and the qualities she had that I didn’t. We broke up about a week
after that incident
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The crying made me realize this guy hurt me to my core. I’d wondered throughout our year-long courtship whether or not he really cared for me. At the moment I started crying, I said to myself, ‘Nope he doesn’t.’” —Talisha H., 28
The crying made me realize this guy hurt me to my core. I’d wondered throughout our year-long courtship whether or not he really cared for me. At the moment I started crying, I said to myself, ‘Nope he doesn’t.’” —Talisha H., 28
4. Because of a surprise breakup.
“It was senior year of college, and my
then-boyfriend and I hadn’t talked about graduation at all. He was
walking me to a meeting I was attending, and all of a sudden he told me
he wasn’t sure if he loved me enough to date me forever.
I had no idea he had doubts, and I
started uncontrollably sobbing in the middle of the meeting. Later on,
he came over to my place and started kissing my bre@sts, clearly wanting
to have s3x, and I started crying again.
I knew we weren’t going to be together,
and I loved him so much. At some point, I stopped crying, and we
finished doing that thing. It’s OK now, though. I’m so not attracted to
him, I’d rather get intimate with a comforter.” —Monica T., 25
5. Because of physical pain and emotional frustration.
“I suffer from v@g!nismus, a condition
where penetrative interc0urse is painful. I was having s*x with my
boyfriend and experiencing pain and discomfort when I started crying.
Not from the physical pain, but from
the complications and frustrations that came along with the experience
that was supposed to be magical and pleasant.
While my partner was experiencing those
very feelings, I was simultaneously conflicted, in pain, and unhappy. I
couldn’t help killing the mood with some tears. When he noticed, he was
alarmed and rushed to comfort me, trying his best to understand what it
was I was feeling. This, to me, felt most intimate of all.” —Sarah L.,
23
6. Because it was really, truly over.
“A year after my ex and I mutually
broke up, we were having s*x. We did everything we used to do, but we
knew it would be the last time.
I broke up into tears. It was pretty
obvious from my side—I have always been touchy with emotional stuff. He
asked me for the reason behind my tears, but I was silent. He asked
again, and I kept on with my closed lips. He then understood my silence
and broke into tears himself.” —Anukriti
7. Because it was time to go back to long-distance dating.
“My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and we had just gotten back home from our first trip abroad.
The vacation really cemented how head over heels I was for him, and being together for over a week was like a dream.
When we landed in my Midwest city, we
were going to spend one last night together before he headed back to the
West Coast and we wouldn’t see each other for weeks.
As we had s3x, I was honestly overwhelmed by how much I loved him and how much I didn’t want him to leave, so I started crying.
I tried to keep it subtle, but he
realized. At first he was scared he hurt me, but when I explained, he
wiped my tears away and comforted me. Then we continued on having
amazing stuff. Swoon.” —Kimberly C
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