All people already divided into those, who are in favor of
abortions, and against them. However, it’s not surprisingly, because not
everyone can bring oneself to this step.
Also, not everyone sees the right to judge somebody’s decision.
Whether it’s good or bad, but every woman can individually make a decision – to give a birth to a child or not.
Yet, a practicing psychotherapist Tatiana Ohneva-Salvoni explained
how actually an abortion can affect a woman’s life after, because
obviously, such operation will leave its mark.
1. Influence on couple relationships Even if a decision about making
an abortion is mutual, it doesn’t mean that a couple will absolutely
forget about it and live happily ever after.
The fact that they turned out to be unprepared to create a family,
already shows that there are some problems which this couple can’t
overcome. The trust is harmed, as well as the confidence in the future.
2. Pangs of conscience Even if you came to a decision about abortion
or already did it, it doesn’t mean, that you won’t have pangs of
conscience. Anyway, you took away a human’s life.
A human, who was a part of your flesh and blood. Don’t think, that
it won’t leave a mark on your memory. Pangs of conscience can take you
by surprise, but what is done can’t be undone.
3. Influence of your future children There happened to be some
cases in psycho-therapeutic practice, when children, who were born after
their mother once made an abortion, were growing depressive and
couldn’t adapt to the life. As if somehow such children don’t feel that
they should enjoy the life because their predecessors weren’t destined
to come into the world.
4. Neurotic feeling of guilt This influence differs from pangs of
conscience because it’s imposed by society. A woman feels as if the
doctors and surrounding persons condemn her action, thus she starts
feeling guilty towards everyone, who considers this action as a sin.
Again, only you can decide whether to give a life to a child or not, but
you should remember that such action will leave a mark on your life
forever. If you came to a decision to make an abortion, you should
prepare that your life will loose its bright side for some time.
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